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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">1.</FONT>天汉网“传统礼仪复兴计划”启动,着手整理资料、调研活动:天汉民族文化网站<a href="http://www.tianhan.com.cn/" target="_blank" ><FONT face="Times New Roman" color=#000000>http://www.tianhan.com.cn</FONT></A><FONT face="Times New Roman"> ( 2005</FONT>年<FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT>月开始<FONT face="Times New Roman">)
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">2.</FONT>与国际在线网站确定合作,并设置“华夏神韵”专栏<FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT>(<FONT face="Times New Roman">2005</FONT>年<FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT>月初)
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">3. </FONT>传统礼仪专题宣传系列活动(<FONT face="Times New Roman">2005</FONT>年<FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT>月)
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">4. </FONT>提出中国传统女子成人礼——笄礼<FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT>筹划方案(<st1:chsdate w:st="on" IsROCDate="False" IsLunarDate="False" Day="8" Month="12" Year="2005"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2005</FONT>年<FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT>月<FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT>日</st1:chsdate>)
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">5. </FONT>整理参考文史资料、仪程策划<FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT>(<FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT>月<FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT>~<st1:chsdate w:st="on" IsROCDate="False" IsLunarDate="False" Day="15" Month="12" Year="2006"><FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT>月<FONT face="Times New Roman">15</FONT>日</st1:chsdate>)
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">6. </FONT>笄礼活动参礼人员确定
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">7. </FONT>笄礼活动礼服赶制、用具筹备
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">8. </FONT>联系电视、报纸、网络媒体
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">9.</FONT>笄礼活动预告:天汉民族文化网、国际在线“华夏神韵”(<st1:chsdate w:st="on" IsROCDate="False" IsLunarDate="False" Day="31" Month="12" Year="2005"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2005</FONT>年<FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT>月<FONT face="Times New Roman">31</FONT>日</st1:chsdate>)
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">10.</FONT>场地联系:<st1:chsdate w:st="on" IsROCDate="False" IsLunarDate="False" Day="1" Month="1" Year="2006"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2006</FONT>年<FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT>月<FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT>日</st1:chsdate>
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<P align=center 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: center; TEXT-ALIGN: 0pt;><B normal?>笄礼活动(</B><st1:chsdate w:st="on" IsROCDate="False" IsLunarDate="False" Day="3" Month="1" Year="2006"><B normal?><FONT face="Times New Roman">2006</FONT></B><B normal?>年</B><B normal?><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></B><B normal?>月</B><B normal?><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT></B><B normal?>日</B></st1:chsdate><B normal?>)</B>
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">1.</FONT>进场时间:<FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT>:<FONT face="Times New Roman">00 AM</FONT>-<FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT>:<FONT face="Times New Roman">00 PM </FONT>开始布置场地,电源安排,有关机构开放场地
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT>:人员全部到位时间整理衣冠:上午<FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT>点半
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">3.</FONT>安排报道媒体、观礼宾客就位,检查音响o(︶︿︶)o 唉<FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT>:上午<FONT face="Times New Roman">9</FONT>:<FONT face="Times New Roman">30
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">4.</FONT>笄礼仪式进行:上午<FONT face="Times New Roman">11</FONT>点,历时约一个半小时,进行期间需保持肃静,以表庄重<B normal?>
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<P 0cm 387.0pt? tab-stops: 0pt;><FONT face="Times New Roman">5.</FONT>仪式结束。还需借用场地补镜头拍摄等。约到下午<FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT>点半结束整个活动
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<P><B>笄礼流程</B>:</P>
<P><FONT size=3>笄者要三次加笄,每次更换相应的民族服饰,每加后行礼。这是笄礼中的主要内容,称为“三加”。三加的服饰,层层递进,分别有不同的蕴义,象征着女孩子的成长。</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3><B>初加</B>:笄者梳双鬟髻、穿着“采衣”入场。采衣是短裤褂样式古式童装,色泽纯丽,象征着女童的天真烂漫;正宾将她的双鬟髻梳成一个发髻,插上一支造型简朴的发笄——这叫做“初加”。初加后,笄者到场地东边的更衣室(叫做“东房”)换上素雅的襦裙,襦裙象征着豆蔻少女的纯真。然后面向父母行正规拜礼。这是第一次拜,感念父母养育之恩。</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3><B>二加</B>:正宾去掉笄者头上的发笄,换上一支俏丽的发簪,然后笄者回东房换上线条优美的深衣(尤其是曲裾深衣)——象征着花季少女的清新婀娜。出场展示,然后面向正宾行拜礼。这是第二次拜,表示对师长和前辈的尊敬。</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3><B>三加</B>:发簪换成华丽的钗冠,深衣换成大袖礼衣——这是汉族女子最隆重的礼服。雍容大气,典雅端丽,正体现了传统审美中的女性风范。在古代,第三次拜是表示忠君,放在现在就没有必要了,但“三拜”的意义可以相应地发展——笄者向挂在墙上的国旗行礼,表示自己报效祖国、传承文明的决心。</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3>三加之后,如同羽化的蝴蝶,笄者正式进入成年人的行列,下来便是一些象征性的纪念礼节:</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3><FONT face="Times New Roman">1.</FONT><B>醮子</B>:笄者接过正宾递过的醴酒,撒些在地上作祭酒。然后持酒象征性地沾嘴唇;有司奉上饭,笄者象征性地吃一点。</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3><FONT face="Times New Roman">2.<B> </B></FONT><B>字笄者</B>:就是给笄者取“字”。“姓名字号”,是传统文化中完整的姓名结构,许多历史名人都有神采飞扬的“字”与“号”。近年来,一些专家学者呼吁恢复国人取字的风俗。表字意在激励人生,不妨尝试给孩子取一个意韵隽永、有励志作用的格调高雅的“字”。</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3><FONT face="Times New Roman">3. </FONT><B>聆训</B>:笄者由父母亲人对其进行教诲,或传授一个成年人该担当的责任,或将自己的人生体验谆谆嘱咐。
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<P><FONT size=3><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT>下来,笄者要向在场的所有参礼者行揖礼以示感谢。父亲致谢辞,行揖礼……到此,笄礼完成。
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<P><FONT size=3><B></B>“礼”是中华传统文化的核心要素,是一种寓教于“美”的文明教化方式,是我们民族特有的人文传统。礼乐文化强调秩序与和谐,这一民族文化传统的回归,无疑会给我们庞大的民族带来屹立风雨的底气,给庸俗文化有泛滥趋势的当今,带来一股雅正的新风。????</FONT></P>
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<P><FONT size=3>需要强调一点,我们不是在考古,不是在复原文物,礼仪不能照搬。按照“礼”的内涵,讲的是“恰如其分”,而不是一味恭敬。作为文明的传承者,我们需要在尊重文明传统、汲取既有文明合理内核的基础上,注入新的时代精神。这是一份珍贵的文化遗产。在继承传统冠笄礼对青年人负责、仁义、孝廉等正面激励价值的基础上,我们应积极寻求,通过一种什么样的适当方式,在冠(笄)之礼中启发青年人爱国、进步、理性、奋进等应有的精神品格。???? </FONT></P>
[此贴子已经被作者于2006-1-2 21:11:11编辑过]
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